Remember the old PLDT commercial wherein the father said "Suporthan taka!"?
How I wish the mom of the kid I know would say that to her. The kid wants to enroll to Trumpets because the kid loves acting, her mom said no. Why? Because the mom wants to be with her daughter this summer. Which is understandable. However, the mom isn't always around. The mom doesn't talk or even cuddle the kid. The kid told me that her mom once said that she doesn't have time to cuddle around. My heart melted when I heard that but then, I told myself, probably, the mother has reasons. There is a possibility that she is stressed out from work. The mom is a lawyer who I knew since I was in second year high.
The kid wants to learn how to skateboard. Which I don't actually approve since it is too risky but hey, if she really wants to learn it, why not. The mom didn't approve of course. It's pretty extreme.
The kid wants to get serious with photography and lomography which is within my interest that's why I am pretty enthusiastic in helping her out to get approval from her mom. Last night, the kid and I were texting, I'm more like her kuya, she's still in highschool and will be transferring from Miriam to Poveda this coming school year. The kid told me that she's with her mom. The mom is in her usual choir rehearsal and made the kid sit wherein everybody can see her. The kid doesn't like that kind of attention. The kid is actually crying. Her mom wants her to join the choir. But the kid doesn't have any interest with it. She doesn't like it. What the kid wants to do is to join Trumpets to act, to get a camera and take pictures and she also wants to draw. That's when I decided I need to help this kid.
I sent an SMS message to her mom and here the exact transcript.
Keith 1: Hi! Keith here. I talked to ******* and I guess you guys need to talk, she really misses you. There's a lot of things she wanna do like acting, photography, lomography and visual arts, which is nice if you'd ask me. At least hindi drugs or alcohol. She needs your support. Medyo nagtatampo na sayo eh. It's not that nakikialam ako, it's just that I feel for her. I guess it's better if you guys would talk. I'm just doing this because you guys are my friends.
Kid's Mom 1: So you're the culprit. Hehe. She didn't tell me that she like visual arts. What she told me is just old school photography.
Keith 2: Actually, it's called lomography. I'm into it as well. It's nice. Just talk to her, she needs that. (Didn't get any reply for this message.)
Keith 3: I'm not trying to influence her in a bad way. Her interest is in acting and visual arts like photography and lomography. If you want, you can visit my site to see some of my sample photos. I hope di ka magalit sakin ah. The kid needs your support.
Kid's Mom 2: Yeah, you are right. She is still a kid. Too young for lomography.
After that, I wasn't able to reply since I ran out of load. I got pissed off with her reply, just her reply. Too young for lomography?! I'm like, what the hell, too young?! I wanted to tell her that there's no such thing as age for art. Right? I do have a point, right? There's no age limit in art.
I don't know why she's like that. For Christ's sake, we all need and expect support from out parents especially from our mom. I am pretty much lucky since I share the same interest with my mom and she doesn't care how much money or time I spend on photography and lomography. Tell me, am I wrong? Am I wrong when I tried to help out this kid to persuade her mom to let her do the things she wants to do?
I guess it's better if we will let our kids to do the things they really want to do and not force them to do something that they do not want to do. Right? Tell me... I have a point, right?
Currently listening to: Simple Plan - Perfect